A real challenge

Something I am really poor at is giving a woman space. I’m not really sure why that is the case. I often see a lack of communication as something to address and I typically address it by trying harder to communicate (turning up the pressure) – but it really isn’t effective and is actually counter-productive. This is a real lesson in patience and understanding. I love this woman for how introspective I have become, but I’m not all that happy about what I learn. Which in itself isn’t a great way to look at things – by learning I am growing, living.